Licet Iovi Non Licet Bovi
The saying is usually deployed as a complaint. Licet Iovi non licet bovi. What Jupiter can do, the ox cannot — a different set of rules for different people. The subtext: someone up there is getting away with something you can't.
But there's a more useful version of this tension. Not pointed at the people above you. Pointed at the rules you stopped needing and haven't let go of.
Stop Running Muscle Memory
At some point in your professional life, you accumulate enough of a track record that standard protocols no longer serve you. The approval chain for the obvious decision. The script on the client call. The softened version of the feedback that didn't need softening.
You know which rules are still useful and which ones are just habits. You keep running the habit anyway.
The Alibi Problem
Stepping outside the rules you've outgrown feels like arrogance. So instead, you follow the procedure — not because it produces a better outcome, but because if something goes wrong, the procedure is your cover.
Jupiter's latitude doesn't come free. It's paired with full ownership of the outcome — no procedure to hide behind, no chain of approval to spread the blame. The moment you claim the latitude without the ownership, it tips into entitlement. The moment you carry the ownership without claiming the latitude, you're cosplaying as someone more junior than you are.
Own the Result
Somewhere in your work, there's a constraint nobody would defend if you asked. Nobody has asked. Stop waiting for someone to officially revoke it.
Claim the room you've earned. Own what happens next. That's the whole game.